This Week in Training: Dancing Through Life!

 
 

Tom and I had 4 fabulous miles last Saturday to start another week of training on the Road to Hyannis. What a joy to have dry ground and no ice or snow to navigate along with moderate temperatures and no wind. The geese flying in formation reminded us to stay connected to a Force greater than ourselves and feel the Creator in all things. We reflected on the events of the past week and opened our hearts with compassion to lives lost while talking about how we retain our optimism. The Optimism Institute founder, Bill Burke, was recently the guest on an episode of SideBar:Optimism in Action podcast. I listened to it on Friday and shared with Tom how I was uplifted and inspired by how Bill answered very difficult questions from the hosts about maintaining our optimism to meet these moments. 

 

 

As I wrote about in a previous blog, "From Atrophy to Astonishing, during one of my early morning meditations, early on in this training cycle, I embodied myself as the young, lithe ballerina in Miss Patricia's ballet class. I experienced the muscle memories from before I contracted polio.

Saturday night, I had a dream about Miss Patricia only we had aged in the dream. She was holding class for a small group of older women. In the dream, I called her Patricia when I asked a question of how many steps we should take before we made a certain dance move. I loved the joy of feeling free in my body and dancing again. When I woke up I felt amazing remembering how happy I was for two years in her ballet class before contracting paralytic polio. 

This week's theme for my training cycle is "Dancing Through Life." I listened to the song from Wicked when I was in the waiting room for my therapy appointments after the diagnosis and having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. I made the decision that even if I had to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I would do so dancing through life as happens in the song. Little did I know that in February of 2007, I would discover the healing power of poetry and become a most unlikely runner! 

 

For Monday's strength training session, I was drawn to this quote from Dr. Joe Dispenza. It's my why!

 I love starting a new day and a new week with a before breakfast rigorous strength training workout with Tom. I can't believe that we are in the final 7 weeks of training. There will be so much to celebrate in Hyannis. I'll be celebrating 20 years of healing after the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome when I was told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. Tom will be celebrating his 74th birthday on 3/2. We met on a blind date 49 years ago on his  25th birthday! And on 3/4, we celebrate 48 years of marriage.

 

 On Tuesday morning, we were treated to a cotton candy sky; a sweet reward for getting up at 6am to get in morning miles. The last few weeks have been hard runs with bitter temps, and having to navigate snow, ice and rock salt. Those hard runs help me to appreciate an easy run like this morning. I felt as though I were dancing through the miles as Tom and I breathed deeply savoring these moments unplugged in Nature. We kept expressing how grateful we are for this training cycle celebrating being in our 70's feeling healthy enjoying life.

I remember how 20 years ago I was NOT enjoying life and faced a grim prognosis after the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome when I was told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. 

Cue the fog horn for Thursday morning's mystical miles as we wrapped up another week of training. We found a nickel on our way home that, aside from how finding money is always a sign, a nickel has special significance.

"The Five Pennies" was a 1959 film based on the true story of bandleader Loring "Red" Nichols who leaves his burgeoning musical career with his band, "The Five Pennies" to care for his daughter who contracted polio. If you decide to watch it, be sure to have a box of Kleenex handy. Spoiler alert: Red Nichols daughter recovers from polio and encourages her dad to return to his passion. In the final scenes, Nichols, nervous and terrified of playing in front of an audience again, is disappointed when he sees no other old friends in the audience. He opens the show, and after a few notes, “Won't you come home Bill Bailey?” echoes through the dark. The lights come up, and he is greeted by Louis Armstrong and his friends. Willa, his wife, comes up on stage and tells him she has a surprise for him. Dorothy, his daughter, steps onto the dance floor without her cane and asks her father to dance. Here is the link to watch the emotional ending to the story.

What a beautiful affirmation for this week's theme of "Dancing Through Life" as we wrapped up another week of training on the Road to the Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K.  Come see me at the Expo! I'll be inspiring runners with my journey as a most unlikely runner and having my books for sale. Here is the link to register.  

In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW*** website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

 

 

 I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.

 

This Week in Training: The Year of the Horse

We were told to pretend we were horses galloping around the indoor gym with its parquet floor lined with green benches around the perimeter. I loved feeling free in my lithe, strong body whether in gym class or in ballet class with my beloved teacher Miss Patricia. But on that day in early June, my body collapsed and my life was forever changed when I was 5 and a half years old.

 

During this week's training cycle, as we ushered in the year of the Horse, I remembered that day in gym class and how horse imagery has been an integral part of my healing journey after the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome. In addition to visualizing the "Run Forrest Run" scene as he breaks free of leg braces, I let the images of horses running wild and free fuel my mirror neurons.  I used the metaphor to ignite a sense of running free in my body; to heal a neuromuscular system that was once ravaged by the effects of childhood paralytic polio and enduring abuse at the hands of family members.

 

"The Thoroughbred" was one of my earliest poems harnessing this powerful imagery:

As we set out on Saturday's 4 mile training run, we quickly realized we were not going to be able to run three times around the Route 9 Reservoir as originally planned with the ice and snow covered sidewalk as we walked out our front door. We headed to the Cleveland Circle Reservoir. Bitter cold wind came off the frozen water of the Reservoir. When we faced a solid patch of snow and ice, we reversed direction realizing we would need to #dothemath and do an out and back on Beacon Street. As we got to our turnaround point at 2.4 miles, a very strange thing happened to me. I hit the wall! I wanted Tom to get the car and take me home. I didn't tell Tom about this until we'd finished the run and were on our way to lunch thawing in our warm car. As I observed myself hitting the wall, I thought of the image of the thoroughbred. I harnessed the power of my mind to remember my strength and the champion I was always meant to be despite how others would treat me differently. I was delighted when I got my second wind and took off at the last mile. "Whoa girl," I said to myself and reined in my pace as Tom also said, "Hey where you goin' there?" I felt totally badass running up the last hill to the 'finish line.' Tom and I figured out that there were several factors that resulted in my hitting the wall so early in our run. We were out of bagels. My usual pre-run breakfast routine was not as hearty as when I have a cinnamon raisin bagel with my oatmeal, juice and banana. Despite the sunshine, the bitter cold wind coming off the Reservoir was an energy drain. Extra energy was also used being mindful of snow and ice. Changing our route midway through our run threw a wrench in my ability to get into the zone and rhythm of the run. Getting a second win and surging through that last mile gave me a tremendous boost for race day.

Monday morning marked the start of a new week, new day and new year with the same habit of Monday morning strength training. Getting up at 6:30am in the dark to work out in our home gym is made easier with my partner on the roads and in life. Since we are going to see Hamilton the Musical in April with a trip to New York,  I've added more songs from the soundtrack to get us pumped when we work out. 

 

On Tuesday, Tom and I weren't sure if we would get in our early morning miles with Monday night's snowfall. We were so grateful to our Town for plowing and salting our streets to make it safe for today's training run. It was a very Robert Frost-like training run. As I watched the sky transform from night to dawn, I felt my heart open and a connection to all that is. Writing poetry, 19 years ago next month, is where this journey as a most unlikely runner began. I felt I was poetry in motion on this morning's run. We passed a few other runners and exchanged a heartfelt "Good morning!" These early morning runs unplugged, breathing in cold crisp fresh air and being out in nature is a sacred time for Tom and me as we age strong and live well.

On Thursday, Tom and I could have easily done another strength training session but opted to wait for the warm sun to make it safe for us to get out and get in our miles during his lunch hour. It was a runderful runchie that required mindfulness with every step. Before setting out, I reminded myself that it was still cold outside despite the warmer temperatures given the ice and snow covered ground. We did take a moment or two to luxuriate in feeling the warm sun on our faces. Our cross training that incorporates balance work held us in good stead when we hit a patch of ice on a sidewalk. Thank goodness for bike lanes! It's hard to believe that 19 years ago I was told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. I was warned that going out in winter could be perilous for me as a polio survivor with presumed osteoporosis. The sun and fresh air helped to clear our minds and open our hearts given the horrific events of the past 24 hours in Minneapolis and the chaos that is being wrought by this Administration. Our time together unplugged in Nature is a gift and we give thanks for the freedom and spaciousness we felt on today's run.

Another week of training is in the books! The weather made for challenging runs, but each mile takes us one step closer to the starting line of Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K.  Last year's Year of the Snake symbolized wisdom, intuition, elegance, and transformation, representing a time for deep thought, strategic planning, and shedding old habits for renewal. It was a year of inner work for me that was a year of letting go and making space for wondrous new connections and experiences that I carry forward with me into this New Year. The Year of the Horse signifies energy, freedom, independence, and perseverance. I'm off to a great start of 2026!

 

In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW*** website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

 

 

 I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.

  

 

This Week in Training: Challenge and Change

Happy New Year! Two months from today, Tom and I will toe the starting line of the 45th Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K. We will also be getting ready to celebrate his 74th birthday on 3/2 which is also the 49th anniversary of when we met. On 3/4, we celebrate 48 years of marriage. After wrapping up last week's training, I was reflecting on the challenges I've known and overcome since I was only 5 1/2 years old beginning with contracting paralytic polio at age 5 and enduring years of abuse at the hands of family members until my father's death by suicide when I was 17 years old. After the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, I realized that without those challenges, I would not be the woman I am today. When I discovered the gift of poetry in my soul in February of 2007, I became aware of the gifts wrapped up in the challenges. I often say that out of the rubble of my past, I dug deep to discover the treasure of who I was always meant to be. 

 

Tom and I weren't sure what route we were going to be able to run for last Saturday's 5K after a snow storm on Friday. The sun was shining and the roads were relatively well plowed with salt and sand. Filled with grit, determination and layers of running gear, we set out on our street to see where we could safely run. The temperature felt like 5 degrees at the start of our run and 10 degrees at the end. The Town was just in the process of digging out a path to the Reservoir/Beacon Street. We stayed on back roads that were clear but we had to do hills to find safe streets on which to run. I embraced the discomfort of the cold and the challenge of the hills celebrating how, with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome I was told to NOT go out in Winter or if I did, I should use a cane with an ice gripper. One fall could mean 'the end' for me since I was presumed to have osteoporosis as a survivor of polio. As an aside, I did have several falls on training runs. Despite landing flat on my pelvis one time, I remained perfectly in tact. 

 

Saturday's run was equal parts discomfort and challenging, and joy, exhilaration and celebration. We had brief exchanges with people shoveling. The storm brought 3 inches of light fluffy snow that seemed to bring out childlike joy and wonder that happens with the first snowfall in Boston when it can be easily cleared away and has kept its pristine white layer on branches and lawns. I reflected on how much of life I would have missed if I would have taken the diagnosis sitting down.

 

Mindfulness was front and center as we navigated partially cleared streets and when plows would pass. We got 'sprayed' with salt from the plows and rather than absorb the discomfort we laughed and expressed gratitude that the streets were being cleared. I was reminded of the poem "Courage" I wrote on the road to the 2009 Boston Marathon.

Courage   

The fear of ice and snow and slush embedded in my soul
a training run in winter - the path to Being whole.
A winter scene - Jamaica Pond - a feast for eyes' delight
to witness nature's splendor and behold this glorious sight.

A leaf - a tiny dancer - skating free without a sound
God's breath directs her movements as She guides her twirling 'round.
Families of ducks decide to walk or take a dip
a comedy of errors into icy water slip.

Branches now bejeweled though bare bend with loving Grace
sparkling diamonds' anchor water's surface hold in place.
God's hand a glove of glistening snow hugs rocks along the wall
their heads peek out reminding me I'm answering God's call.

A scene I'd never witness if I let my fear take hold
courage triumphed, steppin' out with footsteps sure and bold.
Knowing that the pain subsides and Spirit can prevail
the Marathon is beckoning - through those miles I shall sail.

Tom and I relished the warmth of our home as we reversed the process of peeling off layers and getting into warm, dry clothes. To continue my birthday celebration, we went to Legal Seafood for refueling. The holiday decorations made it a festive lunch while the music was from the 60's, 70's and 80's added to the ambiance of our celebration.

 

Monday's strength training was inspired by this quote from Tommy Lasorda:  

Even though Tom was on vacation, we still got up at 7am to get in a before breakfast workout. We took extra time to stretch and challenge ourselves to complement our running. What a treat to have a leisurely breakfast. 

 

On Tuesday, we set the alarm for 8 since Tom was on vacation and we wanted the day to "warm up a bit," but still wanted to get in morning miles. We had breakfast before our run which helped to prepare us to embrace the frigid air.  It was a felt like 6 degrees with wind chill morning. We felt particularly badass getting up and out the door to get in our morning miles. One of my cold weather running tricks is to put vaseline on my face and on the bottom of my feet before getting my socks on. Saturday's miles held us in good stead for taking on Tuesday's relatively flat run. We were able to do our miles with an out and back around the Reservoir run. Miraculously, the wind had once again swept away the torrential downpours after the temperatures rose on Monday and then plummeted over night.

Tom and I were psyched to do a New Year's Day run on Thursday, but Mother Nature had other plans. A dusting of snow was what had been in the forecast, but we woke up to a little over an inch of snow. The streets had not been treated. I'd seen a post from Meb Keflezhigi about training in the winter. He said it is always better to be safe than risking a fall. Heading to the gym for an extra strength training session is the wisest choice. A front moved in that brought a snow squall and a wintry mix while we were doing our workout in our home gym and knew we had made the right choice!

 
We cranked up our playlist, sweat a lot and welcomed in the New Year with a rigorous 45 minute workout followed by a delicious nutritious leisurely breakfast. Tom and I carry our passion, persistence, purpose, commitment and dedication to training and our health and aging strong from 2025 into the New Year. 

Garmin even gave me this badge:

 When training for Boston aside from marathon aches and pains, I would experience phantom pains from polio and trauma. When brought to the surface, the wounds can be tended to and healed. After the epic 7.2 miles on 12/20 to celebrate 72 years, in addition to the incredible strength I felt, experiencing muscle soreness I hadn't felt in years (since the 2018 Bermuda Half Marathon) I noticed trauma memories coming to the surface in different parts of my body.  I cherished the parts of me that were expressing these wounds sending love and compassion to nurse myself to healing these wounds and the beliefs that accompanied them. It is only by repeatedly challenging myself that I have the opportunity to change leaving behind all that went before. 

This training cycle is giving me the opportunity to heal more deeply than ever before. 

 

Were I just maintaining with 5K's or training only for the 10K rather than challenging myself with repeated 6 milers and that epic 7.2 miles, I would not be experiencing this glorious journey of transformation. Last year was the year of the snake when I shed a lot of old beliefs and relationships. I discovered how to love, value and honor myself in deeper and more meaningful ways. There's much I leave in 2025 and much that I carry forth with me from the lessons and blessings of the year. Out of the challenges of 2025, I've been blessed to grow, look for the weekly wins and feel overwhelming gratitude for the changes I've made. In letting go of people and things that no longer served me, I've been blessed with wonderful new connections and experiences. I leave 2025 much stronger physically, emotionally and spiritually than when it began.

 

Here's to 2026 and the year of the Horse!

 

In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW*** website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

 

 

 I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.