Hard is What Makes it Great - But Sometimes Easy Makes it Good!

Last week, the memory of my first trail race on Spectacle Island popped up on Facebook. I was so anxious about the race after Alain Ferry, the Race Director posted the elevation map on Facebook. When I sent him an email wondering if I should still take on the challenge he wrote back to me with the above quote from "A League of Their Own." I've known hard ever since I was 5 1/2 years old after contracting paralytic polio and endured years of abuse at the hands of family members until my father ended his life when I was 17, a month before I started my freshman year at Boston University. With the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome in December of 2006 when life as I had known it came to a screeching halt, I had to "take it easy." I used a variety of adaptive equipment to support my debilitated state as I initially prepared to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. We used PeaPod for grocery delivery and I relied on my family to do all the chores. At my award-winning VA social work career, I had to scale back on taking my veterans to their other clinic stops. I once said that the day I was no longer able to do my job as I had always done it, would be the day I would leave. That day came on 5/25/2007.

I knew that an easy life wasn't the life I was meant to live. In February of 2007, I got still and asked for Divine Guidance. The poem, "Running the Race" flowed from my heart and soul. It opened the portal to healing and foreshadowed my 2009 Boston Marathon run. Talk about doing hard things!

Beginning in June of 2025, Tom and I set out on a training cycle for the 2026 Hyannis Marathon 10K. It was a grueling New England Winter. The training cycle culminated with my  7.2 mile birthday run. Race weekend was cancelled. Because of the unsafe running conditions, we did a 5K on 'Race Weekend,' feeling satisfied and accomplished. A hard training cycle and going farther than I had since the 2018 Bermuda Half Marathon made it great. Tom and I have been focusing on strength training and easy, shorter runs. It feels good right now!

I usually don't think about accepting accommodations to make my life easier. When we saw "Hamilton" in April, we didn't realize our seats in Orchestra Row R would require steps nor did I know there was a handicapped accessible bathroom on the first floor. This September, we bought tickets in Row B of the Center Orchestra. In April, because of all the walking we'd done before the show and needing to climb the steep stairs, I experienced muscle spasms and nerve pain although the incredible show that "Hamilton" is pierced through any discomfort I felt. When you read my blog recaps of our NYC Adventures beginning with Watch the Gap, you'll see how I am learning to walk a middle path with the challenges I still experience secondary to polio and trauma balanced with the joy of the miraculous healing I've been blessed to experience. I graciously and eagerly accepted an extended hand when there was a huge gap getting off the train at Penn Station. We "just happened" to meet Bobby Hentze, the Automation Operator at "Hamilton". What Are The Odds  that he would be coming up to the stage door just as we were taking photos.

 

After receiving a back stage tour and sharing a bit of my journey with Bobby, we embraced his kindness and generosity. While I could have easily stood in line waiting to get into the theater, I accepted his invitation to let security know that I had a 'condition' and should be at the front of the line. I was delighted when security let me into the theater lobby to sit on a folding chair until it was time to open the house.

Because we were among the first to enter the lobby, I was able to find my way to the bar (no not for a drink silly) but to find Mike Anthony, author of "Life At Hamilton." He signed my book and told me to return at intermission.

 

Rather than navigate my way through the throngs of women heading downstairs to use the bathroom, I asked for the HP bathroom on the first floor. I was able to have time to chat with Mike and get a photo.

 

One of my favorite lyrics from "Hamilton" is "Raise a Glass to Freedom", that I chose as the title for Part 3 of my Adventures in NYC blog. Musical theater has the power to transform and heal. While I've done many hard things throughout my life and especially since the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, during our recent NYC Adventures weekend, I came to the realization that sometimes easy makes it good. I am free to be unapologetically me asking for and accepting help that can bring me greater joy, grace and ease. Easy is even sweeter when someone intuitively knows what would bring me greater ease and joy. Sometimes taking the easier way leads to magical destinations. Sometimes, easy makes it oh so good!

In health and wellness,

Mary

Visit my website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

What if the key to overcoming life's greatest challenges lies in the melodies that resonate with our souls? Join us in this heartfelt episode of the Music Saved Me Podcast, where hosts Lynn Hoffman and Buzz Knight dive deep into the transformative power of music with our inaugural contest winner, Mary McManus. Mary’s journey is a testament to the healing power of music, as she shares her inspiring story of resilience after contracting paralytic polio at a young age and navigating a tumultuous family environment. Listen to the episode by following this link.

Through her narrative, Mary McManus reveals how music became her sanctuary. A pivotal moment in her life came when her cousin, a Broadway producer, introduced her to the world of musical theater—a vibrant escape that ignited her passion and brought her immense joy. This episode explores the profound connection between music and emotional healing, showcasing how Mary McManus found solace in melodies during her toughest times and how they helped her forge connections with others

Listeners will be moved by Mary’s reflections on the influence of her high school music teacher and the supportive community she discovered in orchestral music. These experiences highlight the essence of music as therapy, illustrating its role in fostering emotional well-being and resilience. Mary’s journey culminates in her remarkable achievement of running the Boston Marathon, a testament to her indomitable spirit and the impact of music in her life.

Throughout this episode, we delve into the broader themes of music and mental health, exploring how independent musicians can harness their art to inspire and uplift. Mary’s story is not just about personal struggles; it’s a celebration of the healing power of music and its ability to connect us all. From emotional healing through music to the stories of musicians who have shaped our lives, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking inspiration.

 Join us as we uncover the magic of music and its role in personal stories of triumph. Whether you’re a fan of the music history podcast genre or simply looking for a dose of motivation, this episode of the Music Saved Me Podcast promises to resonate deeply. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that underscores the importance of finding your voice and the transformative nature of music in navigating life's adversities. Don’t miss out on this heartfelt journey with Mary McManus, where we celebrate the stories that remind us all of the profound impact music has on our lives.

 Last year I was the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.

     

 

 

Adventures in NYC - Part 2 - What Are The Odds?

                                                                                                 When I woke up last Saturday morning I felt like a kid at Christmas. I was going to see "Hamilton" for the 2nd time from Row B, Center Orchestra. When I bought the tickets, I had no idea that Christopher Jackson was going to reprise his role as General George Washington. I'd been listening to different episodes of The Hamilcast in the weeks leading up to our trip. I connected with Lexi Garcia Toye on Instagram after hearing her incredible Hamilton journey. She is on tour. I was planning to send her a photo of Tom and me in front of the marquee. A joy shared is a joy multiplied. Little did I know how much joy we would be sharing Saturday night. Tom and I debated about how we should organize our day. Go to Junior's for a pre-theater lunch and then take our photos at the Rodgers OR go to the Rodgers first and then grab a bite to eat. We decided to take our photos first since I was so excited and eager to get to the theater. 

I read "Life at Hamilton" by Mike Anthony in May of 2022 and connected with Mike on social media. I listened to his episodes on The Hamilcast. After getting our tickets in May, I sent him a FB message since he was posting about Hamilton happenings. I reminded him of the book review I wrote for his book, "Love, Dad..How my father died and told me he didn't," and shared with him the life changing experience I had at Hamilton in April. I let him know we were planning to return in September. He responded with: "Hello, Mary!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to do this!!!🥰🥰🥰
I’m so glad you made it to the show, and that it had the impact it did. If you do come back in September, I hope to see you there!" A week before the show, Mike had posted about a 9 year old girl who was sobbing at the show saying how much she loves the show and how important it is to hold onto those kinds of moments. I commented on his post and asked if he'd be at the 9/19 matinee. We all know how quickly social media can move and how easy it is to miss a comment. He didn't respond. 

With "Life at Hamilton" in hand and a bottle of water to keep us hydrated as we walked to the theater, Tom and I headed to the Rodgers. Before we left, I'd asked Tom if he should bring a sweater. Once we got to the street, he realized it was cooler than he thought so he went back to the room to get one. I patiently waited downstairs. I felt as though I could have skipped to the theater.

We took our photos:

 

                            

Tom was inspired to place the "Life at Hamilton" book and our water at the stage door. Just as I was about to take the photo, we heard, "You better hope nobody comes out of that door." I got flustered and said, "Oh I'll hurry up." (See photo above that's a bit blurry because I took it so quickly.) He laughed. "No don't worry about it," he said. "You here to see the show?" "Yes we are and we are so excited." "How many times have you seen it?" "2," I replied. "You here for the matinee?" "Yes," I answered and we are planning to get a bite at Junior's. In one swift movement, he took out his key card, unlocked the stage door and said, "Follow me."

The next thing we knew we were going backstage! 

                                                                                          Jimmy Russell, aka Stage Door Jimmy, called out from his office, "Hey why is she shaking?" Our escort said, "Don't worry about it Jimmy. They are with me. They are my cousins from Boston." {Tom was wearing his Red Sox hat.} Our escort told me to watch myself on the stairs. He said that he was going to take us on a backstage tour and take photos of us on the stage. We learned that his name is Bobby and he operates the turntables from his perch "way up there," as he explained it. Through a google search, I found out that his full name is  Bobby Hentze. He serves as the Automation Operator for the production at the Richard Rodgers Theatre. From his console located up on the fly floor, he precisely controls the show's complex dual-revolving stage system, managing the speed and directions of the concentric rings that bring the musical's choreography to life. He said we could take whatever photos and videos we would like and share them. "We love doing this," he said and talked about how they will spot different people at the stage door, usually children and invite them to come backstage.

He didn't ask me about my tremors which had gotten noticeably intense given the emotions I was feeling but I shared with him my journey with polio and Post-Polio Syndrome. "You are quite remarkable," he said. He took us to the wardrobe and prop room. We were so in awe of what we were seeing that we didn't take photos of the wardrobe and prop room but here are the photos Bobby and Tom took:

 

We talked as though we had been lifelong friends about all things Hamilton and our lives. He showed us the wardrobe and prop room as our jaws were wide open in awe of seeing this glimpse of what goes on behind the scenes.

 "Well," Bobby said. "We better get you over to Junior's." As I navigated the steep and narrow stairs, Bobby would make suggestions of where I could hold on and kept reminding me to be careful. "Let me walk out with you. I'll show you the alley to get to Junior's." We kept expressing our deepest heartfelt gratitude as we walked. "We love doing this," he said. "This is what Hamilton is all about!" 

"Now. There is going to be a long line when you get back to the theater around noon. I don't want you to have to stand in line. So just go up to whoever is at the front of the line and explain your condition. If there's any problem, just tell them Bobby told you to let them know you shouldn't have to wait in line." We hugged as we said a tear filled goodbye and grabbed a quick bite at Junior's.

Just as Bobby predicted, there was a long queue of theater goers eager to get into the theater. We approached security and told them that Bobby suggested we let them know that I have a neurological condition and should not have to stand in line. "Oh we know Bobby. He's been here awhile. Well it's too early to go in but ..." he swung open the theater doors and opened up a folding chair for me to sit in while we waited for the doors to open! 

Since we were among the first to enter the lobby, I was able to ask one of the people selling merch if Mike Anthony was working. "Gee I don't know. Where does he work?" "He's the bar manager," I replied. "Well the bar is over there." My heart skipped a beat when I saw Mike Anthony in 3D.

I introduced myself. "I'm so sorry I didn't answer you on Facebook," Mike said. "Oh don't worry about it," I replied. This just adds to the magic of it all. I told him that because we took the photo with his book we met Bobby and got to go back stage! He was so happy for me. I asked him if he would sign my book. He took out a sharpie from his drawer, stepped to the side, signed it. "Come see me at intermission," he said as he handed it back to me. I was seeing "Life at Hamilton" in action!

                                                                                         Yo Yo Yo what time is it? Showtime! IYKYK

To be continued....

In health and wellness,

Mary

Visit my website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

What if the key to overcoming life's greatest challenges lies in the melodies that resonate with our souls? Join us in this heartfelt episode of the Music Saved Me Podcast, where hosts Lynn Hoffman and Buzz Knight dive deep into the transformative power of music with our inaugural contest winner, Mary McManus. Mary’s journey is a testament to the healing power of music, as she shares her inspiring story of resilience after contracting paralytic polio at a young age and navigating a tumultuous family environment. Listen to the episode by following this link.

Through her narrative, Mary McManus reveals how music became her sanctuary. A pivotal moment in her life came when her cousin, a Broadway producer, introduced her to the world of musical theater—a vibrant escape that ignited her passion and brought her immense joy. This episode explores the profound connection between music and emotional healing, showcasing how Mary McManus found solace in melodies during her toughest times and how they helped her forge connections with others

Listeners will be moved by Mary’s reflections on the influence of her high school music teacher and the supportive community she discovered in orchestral music. These experiences highlight the essence of music as therapy, illustrating its role in fostering emotional well-being and resilience. Mary’s journey culminates in her remarkable achievement of running the Boston Marathon, a testament to her indomitable spirit and the impact of music in her life.

Throughout this episode, we delve into the broader themes of music and mental health, exploring how independent musicians can harness their art to inspire and uplift. Mary’s story is not just about personal struggles; it’s a celebration of the healing power of music and its ability to connect us all. From emotional healing through music to the stories of musicians who have shaped our lives, this episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking inspiration.

 Join us as we uncover the magic of music and its role in personal stories of triumph. Whether you’re a fan of the music history podcast genre or simply looking for a dose of motivation, this episode of the Music Saved Me Podcast promises to resonate deeply. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that underscores the importance of finding your voice and the transformative nature of music in navigating life's adversities. Don’t miss out on this heartfelt journey with Mary McManus, where we celebrate the stories that remind us all of the profound impact music has on our lives.

 Last year I was the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.

                                                                                  

 

Breaking The Finisher's Tape

It wasn’t the distance we trained for and it wasn't exactly the place
but Tom and I still had a wonderful celebratory race!

Last Friday, Tom and I took a drive to South Boston to scope out how the roads and sidewalks were after the Blizzard. We had first driven along Heartbreak Hill and the Carriage Road. There was a lot of snow, slush and ice with very narrow pavement on which to run. We knew there would be many runners training for Boston out on the Hills. Although there was some snow, slush and ice in Southie to navigate, there were clear open sidewalks.  Since Hyannis Marathon Weekend was cancelled, Tom and I had our own celebration with a fabulous 5K in South Boston. Our joy, gratitude and reasons to celebrate could not be cancelled! As part of our mental training, I've shared how we visualized crossing the finish line in celebration of: Tom's 74th birthday on 3/2 and the 49th anniversary of when we met on a blind date, our 48th wedding anniversary on March 4th and 20 years of my healing after the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome in December of 2006. Nothing could dampen the celebration.

 

Given the stress of the Blizzard of 2026 and needing to navigate around ice and snow, we opted for a celebratory 5K. Spectacular ocean views, sunshine, blue sky, comfortable temperatures despite a headwind going out and being together unplugged out in nature filled our hearts with gratitude.

 

 

When we stopped to take our selfie, a woman with a beautiful golden retriever asked us if she could take our photo. We initially declined since she was walking her dog, but she insisted. Her dog obediently sat when she told him, "sit." We love the photo she took and expressed our heartfelt gratitude to her for her kindness.

 

 We had so much fun pushing the pace while taking in the sights, scents and sounds of Nature as she gets ready for Spring in Boston. We reminisced, we laughed and at times got overwhelmed with emotion reflecting back on our life together. When we first met, Tom was working as a dishwasher to put himself through school. I worked as an administrative assistant. We had absolutely no support from our families of origin. For our Anniversary this year, I told Tom I would like a new Farberware pot and tea kettle.  During our run I shared with Tom that when we first met we didn't have a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of. Now we have a new pot and an amazing home in Brookline that is almost paid for. We reminisced about jobs we had, places we lived (which incidentally have been within a 5 mile radius of our first apartment) and how frightening and devastating the Post-Polio Syndrome diagnosis had been. Every chance I get, I let Tom know how deeply grateful I am that he said it was a no brainer for me to take a leap of faith and leave behind a regular paycheck and benefits so I could heal. We remembered the white knuckle moments of financial stress and strain not only with my diagnosis but when he had gotten laid off from a tech company the day before he had surgery for bladder cancer. We got in touch with how blessed we are and how our strength, resilience, determination, sense of humor, and our love for one another always got us through the challenges.

 

The miles seemed to fly by especially since we were well trained for a 10K distance. For someone who was supposed to be in a wheelchair, I ran pretty fast. As we approached the 'finish line' at our car, we joined hands and raised our hands high feeling unbridled joy and exhilaration. I had often shared with Tom that I imagined Race Director Paulie Collyer and Bill Rodgers holding the finisher's tape in Hyannis as we crossed the finish line since, in all likelihood, I'd be the first 72 year old mobility impaired runner to cross the finish line. I felt as though I broke the finisher's tape on Saturday's run.

 

On the car ride to Stoked Pizzeria for post-race fueling, I looked up the Age Grading for our time. My Age-graded pace was a14:40 min/mile and that includes having to navigate slush, snow and ice on the sidewalk. After a delicious white veggie pizza, we came home and rested until it was time to get ready to go to Legal Sea Foods for a celebratory dinner. 

 

I was so ready for a Sunday rest day but on Monday it was back to before breakfast strength training.

 

What a great way to celebrate Tom's birthday and the 49th anniversary of when we met. We cranked up the playlist as we amped up the strength training now that our training cycle is over! Tom took the day off from work. We enjoyed a leisurely breakfast and time just hanging out together. We returned to Legal Sea Foods for a birthiversary (Tom''s birthday and the anniversary of when we met) lunch. Amy, the manager, who had seen us on Saturday commented that we were back so soon. We told her what we were celebrating. She wanted to give us a complimentary dessert but since Tom and I are mindful about our sugar intake, and we did indulge in New York Cheesecake on Saturday night, we declined. I told her that Tom was having an Americano for dessert and she said she would be happy to take that off our bill. It was a perfect ending to our training cycle and celebratory weekend.

 

On March 4th, we crossed the starting line of a new year of our life together. We have a New York City adventure planned in April to see Hamilton. I've been wanting to go to the West Bank Cafe which Tom D'Angora, a Facebook friend, Fanilow and incredible human now owns. I'll be crossing that off of my bucket list. We will continue to maintain our health and fitness schedule while giving ourselves time to recover from a rigorous and challenging training cycle through a brutal winter. We feel incredibly accomplished, grateful for all our bodies gave us and all we gave to our bodies throughout our training. I'm relishing in the after glow of breaking the finisher's tape celebrating 20 years of healing and a life created with my bestie and soul mate. 

 

I run with courage and heart glistening with grace
and after twenty years I am still running my own race. 

 

In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW*** website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

 I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.

 

When Race Weekend is Cancelled

 

When I look at the devastation that happened on Cape Cod from the Blizzard of 2026; that people and businesses are still without electricity 4 days after the storm, I realize that the cancellation of Hyannis Marathon Weekend pales in comparison with what people are going through right now. We were extremely fortunate during and after the storm. We did not lose electricity which meant that we did not lose heat. One of our neighbors' friends had come over to snow blow his friend's driveway. Tom offered to pay him to help us since our snowblower did not have the power to clear our driveway. He wouldn't take a penny and cleared our driveway and sidewalk. Our Town continues to move the big snow piles and our street is down to bare pavement. I saw my friend's photos from Falmouth where some streets are not yet plowed and trees and power lines are in the street. One of my friend's posted that her house was at 43 degrees. She was eating Oreos and protein shakes for breakfast because nothing feels normal right now. She later messaged me that she got transportation to a friend's house with heat and electricity. The World Central Kitchen is on the ground on the Cape to help feed people who are without heat and electricity.

 

On Wednesday, I tried calling the host hotel for Race Weekend unaware of the extent of the devastation that had occurred on the Cape to see how they fared during the storm. Their line was busy and their website was down. I received an email saying our Reservation had been cancelled. Much to my surprise, they refunded our deposit! Later in the day, Paul Collyer, Race Director sent out the email saying:

 

"I have received word this afternoon from Hyannis officials that due to utility power still out in parts of Hyannis including the host hotel and other close proximities, deep snow, downed lines and trees and days of clean-up still ahead that they can not allow the road race to take place on Sunday due to safety concerns on the roads and proper staff needed to ensure a safe one.

It is too early to discuss a potential re-schedule date as Hyannis is and will be grappling with the storm the rest of the week into early next week. I will begin the discussion late next week when town hall has re-opened and things are returning to normalcy." 

 

Was I disappointed? Of course! Tom and I trained for the past 8 months imagining what it would be like coming into the finisher's chute celebrating my 20 years of my healing, his 74th birthday happening on 3/2, the 49th anniversary of when we met on his 25th birthday and on 3/4, 48 years of marriage. The mind and body cannot distinguish between what is real and what is imagined. I feel as though the joy we experienced in our moments of imagination, already happened. And, as I said, any disappointment pales in comparison to what people and businesses are experiencing in Hyannis right now. Hotels with electricity are full as families seek shelter out of the cold; many don't have the means to pay for hotels. Schools remain closed. 

 

I feel incredibly blessed and grateful. Our training cycle was the most gratifying training cycle I've had since I trained for the 2009 Boston Marathon. I went beyond the distance of the 10K to celebrate my birthday with 7.2 miles. I've already crossed the finish line of a training cycle that was more than the miles and more than the goal. I will admit that those last several training runs in the cold with snow and ice on the ground took quite a toll. With taper time, everything is resolving, but Tom and I decided that we are going to take our victory lap on Saturday (when the weather looks spectacular given the winter we have experienced) with a 5K. There is a lot of snow on the ground and we will need to navigate around snow piles and narrow sidewalks for safety. When the weather warms up, we will begin a new training cycle building miles once again to the 10K distance.

 

Our plans are being modified and adapted but my purpose to inspire others with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary is permanent. I am chomping at the bit to get out and run again and resume our regular schedule of strength training workouts and runs. We have a 4 day weekend together to enjoy delicious meals both at home and in restaurants and will have time for more digging out from the Blizzard of 2026. The joy at the heart of our celebratory weekend remains. As a side note, this is not the first time a blizzard has caused us to change plans. My bridal shower was scheduled for February 6, 1978, the day of the start of the Blizzard of '78. We were planning to have our wedding reception at Anthony's Pier 4 aboard the Peter Stuyvesant Ship that sunk during the blizzard. Tom and I like to joke that the ship sunk but our marriage stayed afloat!

 

We moved the reception to the Church and used the money we saved from the reception to start our savings as we began our journey as Team McManus on March 4th, 1978.

 

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone affected by the Blizzard of 2026. We are grateful for all those tirelessly working on clean up efforts. Tom and I will pivot this weekend with our hearts overflowing with gratitude for all that this training cycle has given us and will continue to give us as we age strong.

 

In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW*** website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

 I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

  

 

 

 

 

Keep Calm It's Race Week: On Heroes and Adventures

"No matter how old I get, the race remains one of life's most rewarding experiences. My times become slower and slower, but the experience of the race is unchanged: each race a drama, each race a challenge, each race stretching me in one way or another, and each race telling me more about myself and others." ~George Sheehan 

I can't believe race week is here. I am getting mentally locked in for Sunday's Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K. I am going through photos of my previous running adventures that were a resounding success bringing with them joy and celebration. As we leave the Year of the Snake behind us, I continue to shed polio and trauma memories that surface during taper time with an incredible opportunity to continue to heal on deeper levels. I came up with a new mantra, "I am light on my feet." I continue to use my afternoon meditation time with guided meditations from Dr. David Hamilton. They support tempering the thoughts of doubts and fears that can arise during taper time. I am making the shift to the Year of the Fiery Horse seeing myself as a Thoroughbred living the heroic life. Social media and newsletters I subscribe to are sending me messages of shine brightly, saying no to the critic/nay sayer within and to share the gifts I've been given carefully choosing my thoughts and beliefs. 

 

 

I do miss our long runs and workouts but know this time is vital for tissue repair from the intense training and to build strength. Taper time always reminds me of how important regular exercise is or mind, body and soul. 

 

As suggested by ways to manage taper madness, I am getting our gear together.

 

 

As was true when I ran the 2009 Boston Marathon, I am not just running this race for me. As one of my dear friends said to me as we were emailing back and forth about Hyannis, "This one is for posterity."

I remember a blog post I wrote after I ran the 2009 Boston Marathon. Celebrating the Hero Within.
"Being a hero means having the courage to be true to myself and to move in the direction of my dreams. I have a confession to make; I have been a reluctant hero. I have received so many emails and Tweets saying “You are my hero.” Huh – wait a minute. Who me? I'm somebody's hero? People have been in tears because of my act of courage and heroism – to overcome Post-Polio Syndrome and take on the challenge of the Boston Marathon – and to succeed! I think of the people who commented on the articles written about me before, during and after running Boston who saw me as their hero and a source of inspiration to polio survivors to go farther than they believed they could.

Why was I a reluctant hero? I was listening to the voices and behavior of those around me from the past. The ones who begrudgingly chose me last for their team in gym class and a family who rejected and abused me. Being in the spotlight before was an invitation for ridicule and abuse. But that came from people who were blind to see the  heroes within themselves. How could I possibly expect them to see the hero inside of me? The hero who went to school every day with a leg brace; who excelled academically despite a chaotic home life; the hero who went on to serve those who served and despite debilitating illness, put the needs of my patients first and the hero who dared to conquer Post-Polio Syndrome to run in the 113th Boston Marathon raising over $10,000 for Spaulding Rehab Hospital.

After the Marathon run was over, a part of me wanted to retreat into my old 'safe' world; yet ironically, that 'safe' world is fraught with fear and doubt, and a world in which I remain a victim. My passport has been revoked to travel to the land of victimhood. When I crossed the finish line it became a starting line for me to share my journey and to share my gifts with the world. 

Last night, someone I met at the Hyannis Half Marathon called me to congratulate me and tell me I was his hero. He wanted to hear all about my journey on the road to the Boston Marathon. I recalled the countless orthopedic surgeries and rehab; I recalled the intensive rehab following the diagnosis of Post- Polio syndrome; I recalled the leap of faith I took to leave the security of my full time job and paycheck at the VA to follow my passion and to share my gift of poetry with the world. I recalled running in cold and ice and I recalled all the blessings and grace I experienced along this journey. I recalled the incredible people I have met – such as himself and the lives I have already touched with my courage and heart.

Every time I share my journey and realize what strength, beauty and courage I possess to have overcome the challenges in my life, the scales of fear fall away and I realize it is time to step into my role as a 
hero. Me, a hero? You bet I am and so are you!"

It's been two years since I toed the starting line of a race. I'm embracing feeling all the feels of taper time knowing that pre-race jitters are a reflection of the excitement of Race Weekend, all the hard work I put into this training cycle and how important it is for me to feel the joy and celebration of crossing the finish line. I feel sore and tired yet incredibly grateful and gratified by our dedication to training. These days leading up to Hyannis are a time for me to temper down taper madness to be ready to brightly shine on race day. I can feel the overwhelming emotion of when Tom and I cross that finish line once again with hands held high celebrating 20 years of healing and a lifetime of being together.  Success is the only option!

I hope to see many of you at the Expo where I'll be sharing my incredibly inspiring journey as a most unlikely runner and will have my books for sale.  Here is the link to register and to the event website  Bill Rodgers returns as the special guest for Race Weekend. 

 

See you in Hyannis!

 

In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW*** website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

 I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.