Healing is both exhilarating and exhausting. It is filled with trials, tribulations and triumphs. It is joyful, painful and takes tremendous courage. The rewards of embarking on a healing journey are without measure, yet taking that first step can be terrifying. As I prepare to celebrate 20 years of healing this December after having been given the diagnosis of Post-Polio with the dire prognosis of having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged, I find myself reflecting on different aspects of my healing journey.
Jacqueline Hansen had this to write in the Foreword to "Going the Distance: The Power of Endurance," the 2nd book in my Trilogy of Transformation that I wrote in 2016:
Eleanor Roosevelt once said “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.”
I have found this to be true throughout my life. I have also found that I am attracted to strong women friends, who are strong willed, strong minded, with lots of endurance. At least once a day I must tell my-self, “thank goodness I’m a marathoner.” I am guessing that Mary McManus tells herself the same thing. She is certainly someone who has left indelible footprints in my heart. I have rarely met anyone with so many life-threatening challenges who portrays such an onward thinking attitude.
In fact, another Eleanor Roosevelt quotation reminds me of Mary: “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” ...
Just for a moment, let’s ponder the word “heart.” The Latin word for heart is “cor.” Cor is also the root of the word “courage.” I would attribute both heart and courage to Mary. Even Mary herself has said that “It takes incredible courage to heal trauma . . . healing both paralytic polio and trauma.”
There is no race goal on the schedule right now. Tom and I are enjoying the joy and freedom of getting out in Nature, savoring the runs where we need to wear only a tank or t-shirt and shorts. I am celebrating all that I have achieved during these past 18 years as a most unlikely runner feeling incredibly grateful for every run and workout we do.
Here are a few scenes from our recent morning miles:
With every step and every mile, my heart overflows with gratitude for the gift of moving freely in my body experiencing the beauty and wonder of Nature up close and personal. The one-two punch of childhood paralytic polio and enduring years of abuse at the hands of family members took its toll and manifested in the guise of the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome. The physical rehabilitation was grueling. The emotional and spiritual healing was, and at times is still painful, writing poetry brought incredible joy. When I wrote poetry, even as I wrote about the pain of my past, I literally felt no pain and the pain of the past was transformed through my pen. I affectionately call my pen my divining rod for healing!
Last year's training cycle on the road to the Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K took incredible courage especially as we trained through the grueling winter months. I celebrated my 72nd birthday at Christmas with a 7.2 mile run; the longest distance I'd run since the 2018 Bermuda Half Marathon. The joy and exhilaration I felt is palpable in this photo:
Tom and I are grateful and delighted to take a break from training right now enjoying running just for the health of it. When we set our next goal, I will continue to experience the joy and courage of healing from the once devastating effects of childhood paralytic polio and trauma celebrating 20 years of healing and aging strong!
In health and wellness,
Mary
Visit my website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.
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Last year I was the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. "Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.


