Friday, November 7, 2025

More Than The Miles - More Than The Goal

Saturday's run on 11/1 was the start of a new month, a new week in our training cycle and marked 4 months until Tom and I toe the starting line of the 45th Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K. We've been asking ourselves what makes this training cycle so different than other ones we've experienced. We know each training cycle, just like each race, is different but this training cycle has been so much more than the miles and our race goal.
 
We know we can go the distance of a 10K. Even though I was a DNF in Bermuda in 2024, I went out on May 4th and finished my unfinished business. We have run 6 miles several times during this training cycle. I use the mantra, "My body recovers with ease." We could have easily taken our time to very slowly build to the 10K distance and gone out and done the race. But this journey is so much more than the miles. Our early morning runs are sacred time together. Getting up at 6am during the week to get in our miles, 6:30 on Mondays to do strength training, and 7am on Saturdays for our long run is great for our health mind, body and soul. We are building mileage to go the distance of 7.2 miles on December 25th; my 72nd birthday. That will be our peak mileage as we build a solid and strong foundation for a 10K. 
 
I look at photos on my laptop from when we trained for Bermuda Half Marathons 2016, 2017 and 2018. Here are two of my favs from December 2016. It was in the 60's on Christmas Day when we did our last long run of 12.5 miles. I'm manifesting another mild winter this year. 
 
 In December 2014, I had a very serious knee injury and was told to stop running or cap my distance at a 5K preparing for a total knee replacement in a few years. I know my body can do this despite now being in my 70's. Age is just a number as I saw watching the final finishers come in at the NYC Marathon last weekend. 
 
Taking care of ourselves by taking time in nature, unplugged and being fully present gives us the ability to be present in the world without becoming overwhelmed by circumstances. Mother Nature treated us to spectacular sights during our early morning runs this week. Tom and I want to be as healthy, fit and strong as possible. We are taking time for rest to ensure we are having good recovery times. Nutrition has been a vital part of this training cycle discovering what we need for pre- and post-run fueling. Gratitude, joy and celebration are an integral part of this training cycle that transcends miles and a goal.

When we set out for Saturday's 5 miles, I was keenly aware that it was 4 months until race day on 3/1, but the goal quickly receded into the background so I could be fully present to take on the very strong headwinds. We initially planned to go to Jamaica Pond and had a later start than usual since we thought we didn't have any commute time but as Tom started the ignition, he paused. The sun was shining. Since there was a wind chill, he didn't want to have the shade and the closed in space of Jamaica Pond. We were planning to use the car as our aid station. After we parked at Castle Island, we loaded up our jackets and fuel belt/vest with provisions. As the brisk headwind greeted us, I felt this stirring in my soul of "Yes. Bring it on." I remembered Bill Rodgers' words to me before the start of the 2014 Prostate Cancer 5K race. "Life is hard. That's why we run. When we conquer the difficulties on the roads, we can conquer the difficult challenges that are a part of life." It was cold but not that cold to the bone winter cold and the sun was still warm when the winds died down.
 
                                                                
I felt a powerful connection to Source. See if you can see the angel in the first photo. We had a tail wind on the back 2.5 miles. My social media news feed on Saturday evening was filled with pre-NYC Marathon events. Roger Robinson, who moderated a panel I was on for the 2020 Boston Marathon Virtual Expo, received the George Hirsch journalism award. The donors' ceremony for the Museum of World Athletics featured champions Bill Rodgers, Jacqueline Hansen, Frank Shorter and Deena Kastor just to name a few. I've been blessed and grateful to meet them and have them embrace my journey as a most unlikely runner. While the years leading up to the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome in December of 2006 and the two years following the diagnosis were filled with physical, emotional and spiritual pain, the diagnosis led me to this remarkable running community. Spencer Aston fitted me for my first pair of running shoes at Marathon Sports. He posted his "Flat Spencer" photo. What a thrill to track him on race day.
 
Monday was our strength training day.
When we woke up on Tuesday, still a bit tired from the time change, our weather app said, "Feels like 29 degrees." No excuses! We were up and out the door by 6:30am. Seeing the sunrise now that DST ended and a heron speaks to why this training cycle is more than the miles and more than the goal. After breakfast, I googled the meaning of seeing a heron. Seeing a heron symbolizes patience, self-reliance, and wisdom, as it teaches the importance of stillness, keen observation, and waiting for the right moment. In different traditions, it can also represent balance, good fortune, independence, and the ability to move gracefully between different elements in life. It's a symbol of transformation and the importance of being present. Tom and I patiently observed this Being knowing that being present is an integral part of training that is so much more than the miles and more than the goal. Being one with nature and Source is a gift.  He was able to capture its grace in a photo.
There's no such thing as bad weather; only bad weather gear. Fortunately there was no precipitation - yet. My weather app has a snowflake in the forecast. And sure I miss putting on a singlet and shorts, not having to  go through the hat and glove bag to find my gear deciding which jacket would be best, but there is exhilaration and wonderful health benefits of getting up early and experiencing the cold air. The days may have less daylight but we are soaking up the sunshine in the early morning hours and during our Saturday long runs. 
 

Thursday morning miles were an amazing way to wrap up another week of training. When I saw the full moon, the beginning of a 5th Dimension song came to me. "The sun comes up the moon goes down a new day's on its way..." But I couldn't remember the rest of the song. During our magical morning miles, I kept remembering more and more of the song adding to what I remembered each time. By the end of our run, without googling it, and with Tom's encouragement to keep singing, I remembered the entire first verse to "Light Sings." It's a most appropriate anthem for our times. If you're not familiar with it - give a listen. I've added it to our On the Road to playlist.

Tom and I are filled with joy and gratitude for this training cycle. We celebrate our precious, sacred moments together unplugged out in nature. We celebrate our health and wellness ever mindful of where I was 19 years ago when I was debilitated facing a grim diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome. I was told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expect an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. I am deeply grateful that, in February of 2007, I got still and asked for Divine Guidance refusing to take the diagnosis sitting down. I listened to the promptings of my heart and soul discovering the healing power of poetry as my imagination stoked the power of the mind/body connection. I could barely get out of bed in the morning, navigate the stairs in my house and I would put on a strong front to continue to serve my veterans, their families and my Team. Now I get up at 6am to get in morning miles and experience the magic of the Universe. Tom gets the credit for these Full Moon photos.
Tom has run several half marathons since our Bermuda Half Marathon days but I haven't challenged myself with a training cycle like this since I trained for that trilogy of Bermuda Half Marathons. I'm embracing all the sensations that accompany a challenging training cycle. I feel overwhelming gratitude that I get to experience Mother Nature up close and personal. I am relearning how to trust that my body is capable of impressive stuff; that limits only live in my mind.
That's a wrap! Another week of training is in the books. I'm discovering that training for the Hyannis 10K is becoming a lifestyle that is so much more than the miles and more than the goal. It's transformational!
 
In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW**website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

My Trilogy of Transformation chronicles my journey from having been told to prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair with the diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome, a progressive neuromuscular disease by Western Medicine standards to a woman transformed through the sport of running. Take a journey into a world of healing, hope and possibilities with my 7 books, available on Amazon. My 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner: Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is a selection of the WBZ News Radio Book Club and Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reading for Every Runner. You will be inspired by my strength, courage, resilience, determination and overcoming the inevitable setbacks that come with a journey to health and wellness. 

I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.

 

Reach out to me at maryamcmanus@gmail.com if you'd like me to speak to your organization or group to inspire them with what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary; how one finds strength, resilience and determination in the face of seemingly impossible odds.

 

 

 
 
 

Thursday, October 30, 2025

The Icing on the Cake

 

As the page on the calendar turns over to November 1st this weekend, we are 5 months away from the 2026 Hyannis Marathon Weekend. As Bill Rodgers said, "The proverbial icing on the cake - has always been racing." My first race was on June 1, 2008. It was the Corrib Pub 5K; a friendly race that welcomed all paces and supported the West Roxbury Community. What a wonderful introduction to the running and racing community. In July of 2008, we ran the Marathon Sports 5 Miler. It was a highly competitive field; an evening race with hot and humid weather. I knew that if I quit, I would never be able to run the 2009 Boston Marathon. Because the staff at Marathon Sports knew my story, they celebrated me crossing the finish line as if I had broken the finisher's tape. 

Fast forward to Hyannis Marathon Weekend 2009 when I ran my first race at the half marathon distance. Because it was a race for the 10K, Half Marathon and Marathon distances, my being a back of the pack runner didn't matter; I was a mid-packer for the marathon distance. I'm using visualization again to both draw from anchor race memories and to create a magical day on 3/1/2026. 

Tom and I wrapped up another week in the training cycle with a 4 mile run on Saturday, an invigorating strength training session on Monday and two wonderful early morning pre-breakfast training runs.

Saturday's run took us twice around the Cleveland Circle Reservoir. It was a quiet run in contrast to the previous week's run when it seemed as though everybody was outside soaking up the sunshine and warmer temperatures.


Tom and I took notice of the still water and Fall foliage with hearts overflowing with gratitude for being together, unplugged and out in nature. I appreciate every step and every mile and never take my movement for granted. There was a crew cutting down the growth of bushes that line the Reservoir and we had to take a detour. We weren't sure how that would affect our mileage. We were just a tenth of a mile over 4 miles when we got back to the car.
 
While I am looking ahead to Hyannis Marathon Weekend and reflecting back on amazing race experiences, I am also looking ahead to my 72nd birthday on Christmas Day. Birthdays bring a time of reflection along with celebration. On Monday's strength training workout, I reflected on this quote:

I've known struggles since contracting paralytic polio at the age of 5 1/2 followed by enduring years of abuse at the hands of family members until my father ended his life by suicide when I was 17. There was no time for me to say "I can't do this" as I headed off to Boston University the month after he died. Throughout my life, whenever faced with struggles and challenges, my resounding mantra has been I must do this. I am incredibly fortunate that I found my soul mate in my mid-20's who also believes in an "I must do this" mantra for navigating life's struggles. We had an invigorating 45 minute strength training workout that complements our miles on the road.
Another one of my favorite Bill Rodgers quote is how running as a sport unifies us. "That's why we're the greatest sport," he is quick to say whenever the opportunity presents itself. Tuesday was a shining example of how running unifies us. Despite gray skies and a chill in the air, we exchanged smiles and said good morning to many runners like us, enjoying early morning miles.

 
A warm bowl of oatmeal, a cold glass of juice, toast and a banana made for perfect post-run fueling. By 8am our hearts and bellies were full.

The forecast did NOT predict rain for early Thursday morning. When the alarm went off at 6am, the weather app showed light drizzle ending in 21 minutes - NOT! Fortunately we decided to wear our ponchos and set out to feel the unbridled joy of the gift of running in the rain. There was no wind and the temperature was in the upper 40's. I love how these early morning runs help our bodies to adapt to the change in seasons. With fog and mist, the morning miles had a mystical quality to them. 

 
Despite all the chaos happening in the world right now; all the pain and tragedies, these morning runs fortify us to figure out how we can best use our time, talent and treasure to make a difference in the world. Taking care of ourselves by taking time in nature, unplugged and being fully present gives us the ability to be present in the world without becoming overwhelmed by circumstances.
 
We are looking forward to a sunny run on Saturday for 5 miles. The theme for the next week of this training cycle is shaping up to be It's More Than the Miles. 
 
In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW**website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.
 

 



Friday, October 24, 2025

Born to Run: Nothing to Prove - Everything to Enjoy!



Tom and I kicked off another week in the training cycle on the road to Hyannis Marathon Weekend 10K with another 6 mile run. Since there were going to be "No Kings" protestors in and around the City, we opted for a Reservoir run combined with an out and back on Beacon Street. We stopped to chat with different people who caught our attention during our run and realized that in future long runs, we needed to conserve our energy and be more focused on the task at hand. In particular, there was an elderly woman on Beacon Street walking gingerly with a cane who was complaining about the trains running only every 22 minutes. We could have kept on with our run but I asked her how much farther she had to walk. "Just a few blocks now," she angrily said in response to my question. "You have no idea how lucky you are to be able to walk." I had to let her know how I do know how lucky I am before we went on our way. Perhaps I lit a spark of possibilities within her. Young boys were dressed in shirts, ties, khakis and a Bruins Jersey fundraising for a trip to Quebec as part of the AAA Youth Hockey League. We just had to chat with them and snap the QR code to make a donation via Venmo. Our pace had slowed way down by the last two miles but we made it through. That's why it's called a training run. While we enjoyed interacting with people we randomly met, we do need to be mindful of our goal. Everyone wanted to take advantage of yet another gorgeous Autumn day in Boston.
 



Monday was our strength training day. Tom and I each remarked how great we felt despite being out for longer than planned on Saturday's 6 miler. We can feel the momentum of strength, endurance and most important the joy in this training cycle.

Tuesday's early morning run inspired an aha moment for me. It was a glorious way to start the day. I was in a deep sleep when my alarm went off at 6am. I shook off the grogginess and by the time Tom and I got home after those magnificent morning miles, I felt energized, refreshed and ready to have a terrific Tuesday. I feel so much joy and celebration during this training cycle. This one's for me with nothing to prove and everything to enjoy. There is no fundraising and no time limit to be concerned about. Hyannis Marathon Weekend has been one of my favorite race weekends since I began my journey as a most unlikely runner in February of 2008. It's a time for reunion with old friends, making new friends and having the opportunity to inspire others with my journey from a wheelchair to the Boston Marathon and beyond! I am savoring the sore muscles, delighted with the consistency of our runs and strength training workouts, and experiencing this journey of transformation in the wake of a once devastating diagnosis in all its glory.
 


We were treated to Autumn in all its glory as moderate temperatures continue to prevail needing only a long sleeve shirt, a pullover layer and capris. We unwrap the gift of a new day with presence, unplugged feeling the grace and gratitude for the blessings in our lives.
 
Thursday morning's run was the jewel in the crown of this week's training. I woke up naturally about 15 minutes before the alarm went off. I meditated setting my intentions for a wonderful run and expressing my overwhelming feelings of gratitude for this training cycle and these sacred before breakfast miles with Tom. We were both energized after a good night's sleep excited that moderate temperatures continued to prevail for late October.
 
We could see the magnificent colors of dawn on our way to the Reservoir. Our breaths caught as we noticed them at the same time. The still water created the canvas to reflect the magnificent colors of the dawn of a new day.
 

We turned a corner as the day got lighter. "Look," Tom exclaimed. "An Eagle!" "Do you think you can get a photo?" Not only did Tom get a photo of the Eagle perched on the tree but caught it as it took off in flight. "An eagle totem symbolizes strength, courage, vision, and a deep spiritual connection to the divine." While most birds take shelter during a storm, the eagle soars above the storm! I felt its magic and powerful energy as my heart soared with gratitude as I celebrate 19 years of healing in the wake of the once devastating diagnosis of Post-Polio Syndrome. Western Medicine's prognosis suggested that I would be grounded for the rest of my days needing to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair and expecting an accelerated decline in functioning as I aged. But in February of 2007, I got still and asked for Divine Guidance tapping into Source in my heart and soul as poetry poured out of me. 
 
                            
The runner within me was born in my imagination in the poem, "Running the Race." Click on link to read the full text and back story.
 
Even though I contracted paralytic polio at the age of 5 1/2 and then endured years of abuse at the hands of family members, I knew deep in my heart and soul that I was born to run. I knew it when I started writing poetry imagining myself running and free. I knew it when I declared to my personal trainer in February of 2008 that my next health and fitness goal was to run the 2009 Boston Marathon even though I had never run a day in my life and was still wearing a toe-up leg brace. I'm now off the sidelines with nothing to prove and everything to enjoy on this wondrous training cycle.
 
In health and wellness - Mary

Visit my ***NEW**website to learn how poetry, optimism, gratitude and the mind/body connection helped me to transform my life. After having been told in December 2006 that I should prepare to spend the rest of my life in a wheelchair, I went on to cross the finish line of the 2009 Boston Marathon and have many adventures as runnergirl 1953. Be sure to visit the recently updated News and Events Page for links to podcast interviews, speaking engagements and where you can find my incredibly inspirational story.

I was recently the guest on The Optimism Institute Blue Sky Podcast. 
"Mary McManus has never had it easy. As a kindergartner, she was a victim of polio just a short time before the vaccine was introduced. She also faced trauma in her home life but somehow managed to persevere and overcome these and still more obstacles throughout her life. Today, Mary is an inspiring author, poet, motivational speaker, and finisher of the Boston Marathon." Here is the link to the Episode Website. Be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform and on YouTube.
 

Looking for great books to get cozy with this Fall? My books share a powerful message of healing, hope and possibilities; what's possible despite all appearances to the contrary and are available on Amazon.  My 6th book, "Into the Light:Emerging From the 2020 Pandemic" and my 7th book, "A Most Unlikely Runner:Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" are selections of the WBZ News Radio Book Club. "Inspiration From The Heart of a Warrior" is also a selection Bill Rodgers Running Center Billy's Bookshelf: Recommended Reads for Every Runner. Visit my Amazon Author Page for book descriptions and rave reviews.


 








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